Yet how can I be sure? Some days I feel more confident of my decision than others. A part of me still loves him or at least I care for him. I don't think I am in love with him, but what if I make a mistake. A lot of people will be affected by what I decide.
How To Tell Your Wife You Want a Divorce
How to Tell Your Wife You Want a Divorce | Fatherly
By Susan Pease Gadoua for Divorce Maybe you have spoken to your therapist or clergy person, trusted friend or family member. Your marriage, despite all the hard work you did together or separately, is over. But when? Those are not easy questions to answer, but much will depend on whether or not your spouse has any idea of how you feel. If you have been in marital therapy together or have had numerous discussions about how troubled you are by the relationship, or if the feelings are clearly mutual, you will have more options. But if your spouse has no idea, you will likely blindside him or her and that can be devastating.
How To Tell Your Spouse That You Want A Divorce
Maybe you've been unhappy in your marriage for years. Or maybe for the last two or three years, you've been thinking about divorce. Perhaps the only thing holding your marriage together is guilt over splitting up your family.
The messiness of divorce has been well documented. In most situations, there are lawyers involved. And a lot of very real, and very conflicting, emotions. Preparing for divorce is important. But when you are certain — absolutely certain — you want to go through with ending your marriage, the most difficult part is deciding how to tell your husband or your wife you want a divorce.